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Rotational Dinner Party

2010-08-18T15:30:00.000-07:00

Another event from Patrick at Mixer Parties:

The Rotational Dinner Party is for singles. The men will move from table to table after each course while the women will remain seated. The dinner will include appetizers, salad, chicken or vegetarian fajitas and dessert (cheesecake with toppings). Plus one complimentary drink ticket!

SOCK CLUB DISCOUNT:
After you register at www.Mixerparties.com, simply email info@mixerparties.com and mention "SOCK CLUB Discount" then you will receive a $5.00 credit.

Date: Saturday, August 21
Time: 7:00 PM
Location: Ocean Park Cafe
3117 Ocean Park Blvd
Santa Monica, CA. 90405

Questions? Please call 310-995-7048.

Singles Dinner in Santa Monica - $5 Discount

2010-04-28T16:21:00.000-07:00

Patrick at MixerParties.com is doing another rotational singles dinner Saturday, June 5, in Santa Monica!

A rotational dinner is where there are up to eight people at each table and after each course the men will rotate to the next table. The cost is $25 which includes food and one drink ticket. Save $5 if you email mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention Sock Club in the subject line. Please see MixerParties.com for the location and more details.

Matchmaker looking for single ladies!

2010-04-04T18:32:00.000-07:00

If you do apply, let me know how it goes and good luck!

Open call! NOT taped. Be matched personally by Destin, Rachel and Patti for FREE! Find true love with established guy! If WANT to be considered for show, let us know. Looking for women 21-49, in shape, any ethnicity. HOWEVER, everyone welcome to apply! Email photos & info ASAP. (Also in need of attractive Asian women 23-35, 5'5" & up in LA area for interviews THIS WEEK!) Email david@millionairesclub123.com

Rachel Greenwald Dating Advice Giveaway

2010-03-09T14:27:00.000-08:00

Rachel is the author of "Find a Husband After 35" which is an amazing book. Here's her sequel:

Rachel Greenwald is giving away 10 free private dating consultations (value $500 each!).

Enter the raffle with your purchase of her new book released today: "Have Him At Hello: Confessions From 1,000 Single Guys About What Makes Them Fall In Love... or Never Call Back" in paperback (only $10 on Amazon today)! [Note: "Have Him At Hello" is the paperback edition of Rachel's book "Why He Didn't Call You Back" with a new title and a new chapter about how to find and keep the guy you want]

Simply purchase a copy of "Have Him at Hello" for yourself (or as a gift for any single woman you know) by this Sunday (March 14, 2010), and forward us the receipt to enter to win one of 10 Free private consultations with Rachel (value $500 each). See raffle details below.

NEWSFLASH:

* Watch Rachel on The Today Show this Friday, March 12, in the last hour with Kathie Lee and Hoda!

* Rachel is hosting a LIVE Q&A event on her Facebook wall this Sunday night, March 14 (9:00pm-12:00pm EST; or 6:00pm-9:00pm PST). Send Rachel a friend request on Facebook (she's the Rachel Greenwald in the "Harvard network"), then visit her Facebook wall during the event, submit your question on her wall, and she will reply back to you immediately.

* Rachel is now conducting training workshops for anyone who wants to become a professional Dating Coach and Matchmaker. Contact Rachel through her website for more information about dates, locations and fees.

Raffle details: When you purchase a copy of "Have Him At Hello" by Rachel Greenwald before Sunday, March 14, 2010, simply forward your purchase confirmation via email to: HelloBookRaffle@yahoo.com , and you'll be entered into a raffle to win one of ten free phone consultations with Rachel for advice about your dating life. Please include your own name and email address so that we can contact you if you win. You may purchase "Have Him At Hello" from ANY online retailer (Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Borders, etc.) or at ANY bookstore. If you have a paper receipt from a bookstore, either scan your receipt and attach it to the email, or write in an email the store name, store # and transaction# for proof of purchase).

Singles Dinner - Saturday, February 27th

2010-02-24T10:13:00.000-08:00

Another singles event from Patrick at Mixer Parties!

The Rotational Dinner Party is at the very popular Ocean Park Cafe. We are catering to fun singles. The men will move from table to table after each course, while the women will remain seated. A three course meal which will include Hearty Appetizers, Dinner Salad, Penne Pasta with Meat or Marinara Sauce and Dessert(Cheesecake plus toppings). Plus One Complimentary Drink Ticket for a glass of wine or a soft drink. After the dinner we are having an after party. I have several tables at a local lounge reserved for the attendees.

SOCK CLUB DISCOUNT: When you sign up at www.Mixerparties.com on Friday February 26 or before, the cost is only $20.00. this includes the food and one complimentary drink ticket. After you register you will receive an event confirmation. Then go ahead email Mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention "SOCK CLUB Discount" within 24 hours you will receive an email saying you received a $5.00 credit/return to your credit card.

NEW FEATURE:
CONTACT PEOPLE AFTER THE DINNER: GO TO MEETUP.COM AND JOIN SANTA MONICA SINGLES. If you are interested in meeting join Meetup.com for free and then join Santa Monica Singles. If there is mutual interest you can email that person from the dinner.

We are also getting singles from Perfectbusiness.com, also from Two Meetup groups one called Santa Monica Singles the other Thirties and Forties Singles Social Connection and with the Member Benefits Division of Westsiderentals.com

Recommended Age: Men 30-49 Women 30-49

WHERE TO PARK: The OP Cafe will be closed from the public, we will have balloons outside the cafe. Also there is very easy and free meter parking after 6pm along Ocean Park between 32nd and 34th on the northside of Ocean Park Boulevard. Plus residential parking also after 6 P.M. please allow time to park.

Any questions please just email mixerparties@yahoo.com or call 310-450-2564.

Take care,

Patrick

Couple marries in Apple store, quotes Steve Jobs in their ceremony

2010-02-18T16:01:00.000-08:00

How compatible they are! Couple marries in Apple store, quotes Steve Jobs in their ceremony

Enjoy a Chocolate Board for Valentine's Day!

2010-02-13T18:28:00.001-08:00

I love this Chocolate Board: A sweet-treat alert for your Valentine at Whist

Sadly, they won't be serving it tonight or tomorrow night, so it'd be fun to make one yourself for Valentine's Day.

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I love Death Bear!

2010-02-12T10:15:00.000-08:00

He's the Grim Reaper of love expired.

Need to get over your ex? Call Death Bear

Death Bear - a 7-foot-tall character created by a New York performance artist - is a self-appointed public servant for the brokenhearted. He takes away old photos, letters and socks left over from failed relationships - and as Valentine's Day nears, his services are in high demand.

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/35319061/ns/today-valentines_day/from/ET

Los Angeles Supper Club - Saturday, February 13

2010-02-08T09:00:00.000-08:00

My gal pal Kelly is hosting another LA Supper Club at her home in Santa Monica on February 13. Check out her Meetup page for all the details. I love that it's a Chinese theme!

I'm sure this one will fill up as she's a great hostess and an amazing cook.

"Marry Him" on TODAY

2010-02-04T14:26:00.000-08:00

For all you single ladies and curious gents, this is a fascinating look at the current State of Dating, especially for those of you who live in LA since that's where Lori is.

Lori Gottlieb, author of "Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough," speaks with TODAY’s Meredith Vieira about relationships and compromising.
http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/26184891/vp/35234983#35234983

"Marry Him" book out tomorrow!

2010-02-03T10:53:00.001-08:00

Here's an interview with author Lori Gottlieb.

Host a Party on V-Day!

2010-02-01T11:51:00.001-08:00

I love reading foodie blogs and this guide to having a singles Valentine's Day party is a goodie for sure with great tips for a fun time for all!

Meet Matchmakers at the Viceroy this Sunday

2010-01-29T12:36:00.000-08:00

If you're tired of trolling the internet for love, a matchmaker may be the answer.

This event looks like a great way to check one out: http://www.evite.com/r?iid=CURMDRDISJSOQIQNAZJN

If you go, let me know how it was!

Throw out the list!

2010-01-27T14:38:00.000-08:00

If you've ever made a list of what you want in love, memorize several of the important ones and then throw it out. Here's a tale of a gal who finally did that and was very lucky that her guy was still available.

Singles Dinner This Saturday

2010-01-25T13:09:00.000-08:00

Another singles dinner from the gang at Mixer Parties!

Patrick writes:
The Rotational Dinner Party is at the very popular Ocean Park Cafe. We are catering to fun singles. The men will move from table to table after each course, while the women will remain seated. A three course which will include Appetizers, Dinner Salad, Chicken or Vegetarian Fajitas and Dessert, plus One Complimentary Drink Ticket.

SOCK CLUB Discount: If you sign on Friday January 29th or before the cost is only $20.00, which includes the food and one drink ticket. After you register on www.Mixerparties.com, simply email mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention "SOCK CLUB Discount" and you will have $5.00 return to your credit card. On the day of the event the cost is $25.00.
AFTER PARTY: We have several tables reserved across the street at The El Torito. Please make sure you open a separate tab with the bar or just bring cash.

WHERE TO PARK: The OP Cafe will be closed from the public, we will have balloons outside the cafe. Also there is very easy and free meter parking after 6pm along Ocean Park Blvd between 32nd and 34th on the northside of Ocean Park Boulevard. Plus residential parking also after 6 P.M. please allow time to park.

The Ocean Park Cafe 3117 Ocean Park Blvd. Santa Monica, CA. 90405

Any questions please just email mixerparties@yahoo.com or call 310-450-2564

Couple Meets Online = Lovely Wedding Vows

2010-01-23T12:49:00.001-08:00

Thanks to Online Personals Watch for this. Enjoy!

http://www.onlinepersonalswatch.com/news/2010/01/my-entry-1.html

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Are you a "Waitie Katie"?

2010-01-21T14:38:00.000-08:00

This article from The Daily Beast provides insightful reasons on why some are procrastinating on marriage.

Millionaire Matchmaker is back!

2010-01-18T22:59:00.000-08:00

I cannot wait to see the new season Tuesday nights on Bravo! Money can't buy you love, but it sure is a lot of fun and sometimes educational watching people try.

Vows Videos on the New York Times website

2010-01-17T21:40:00.000-08:00

These are short videos of how people met their spouses, including one with Will Ferrell. It's a fun way to get inspired to keep dating despite setbacks. Here's the link.

Thanks Laurie for sharing this with me!

Single? Don't want to be? Read this.

2010-01-15T14:19:00.000-08:00

1) Pick up Marie Claire, February 2010. Even though this is for women, men I think this applies to some of you as well.

2) Read the interview on pages 71 and 72. I have to warn you the last paragraph is a heartbreaker.

Love is important and precious, never forget that.

If He's Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong - and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right

2010-01-14T14:16:00.000-08:00

Here's a message from two-time Sock Club guest speaker Lisa Steadman:

For every person who buys my book today and enters their information here: http://www.ifhesnottheonewhois.com/ I'll donate $1 to The Clinton Foundation's Haiti Relief Fund -- up to $3,000! Not only am I helping single women create brighter futures, I'm helping Haiti rebuild. And you're helping me with my book campaign! It's a win-win-win! ;)

Thanks Lisa for donating! Every dollar will make a difference.

Valentine's Day is a month away, Media goes wild!

2010-01-13T15:48:00.000-08:00

Valentine's Day is a month away and the media frenzy has begun!

First up, can Nate Berkus and Patti Stanger find a date for a fortysomething woman? (I'm thinking yes!) Tune in tomorrow on Oprah! I'm going to record this one.

Next, Social Media Club of Los Angeles presents “Dating & Relationships: The Game Has Changed” at 12th & Highland in Manhattan Beach on January 14th 7pm – 10pm. It's free, so go! Former Sock Club guest speakers Evan and Liz will be there.

Lots more to share, so I'm going to try to keep posting daily until V-Day. That's my New Years/birthday resolution!

HOLIDAY ROTATIONAL DINNER & AFTER PARTY

2009-11-30T17:34:00.000-08:00

Another singles event from Patrick:

When: December 12, 2009 6:30 PM
Event fee: $20.00 per person, with Sock Club discount
Where:
The Ocean Park Cafe
3117 Ocean Park Blvd, Santa Monica. CA. 90405
Santa Monica, CA 90405
310-995-7048

A Holiday Day Themed Rotational Dinner Party is at the very popular Ocean Park Cafe. There will be Eggnog, Holiday Decorations and Music.

We are catering to fun singles. The men will move from table to table after each course, while the women will remain seated. A three course meal which will include Appetizers, Dinner Salad, Penne Pasta with Meat or Marinara Sauce and Dessert. Plus one complimentary drink ticket.

SOCK CLUB DISCOUNT: The Discount is good on any day and on Friday Dec 11th or before, with the discount the cost is only $20.00 which includes the food and one complimentary drink. To get the discount simply email Mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention "Sock Club Discount" and you will have $5.00 returned to your credit card after you sign up online. The day of the event the cost is $25.00.

By pre-registering and signing up online this guarantees your spot at the dinner. We also want to have an even number of men and women. In addition we need to know how much food to serve. We also have three other single groups attending, besides our group.

We also have singles coming from LA-Fun.com, Lock and Key events and Westsiderentals through their member benefits program. Also I have the Thirties and Forties Singles Social Group through Meetup attending.

AFTER PARTY: After the dinner we are walking across the street to El Torito's bar for the after party. Please bring cash for the waitresses, or order drinks from the bar and open up an individual tab.

Recommended Age:
Men 30-49
Women 30-49

WHERE TO PARK:
The OP Cafe will be closed from the public, we will have balloons outside the cafe. Also there is very easy and free meter parking after 6pm along Ocean Park Blvd between 32nd and 34th on the northside of Ocean Park Boulevard. Plus residential parking also after 6 P.M. Please allow time to park.

Any questions please just email mixerparties@yahoo.com or call 310-450-2564
Take care,
Patrick

Singles Dinner this Saturday

2009-09-15T10:41:00.000-07:00

Bon appetit!

The dinner is being held on Saturday Sept. 19th.

If you sign up on Friday Sept 18th or before go to www.Mixerparties.com, simply email Mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention "Sock Club Discount" and you will receive a $5.00 return to your credit card. With the discount the total cost is $20.00 which includes the food and one drink ticket.

The Rotational Dinner Party is at the very popular Ocean Park Cafe. We are catering to fun singles. The men will move from table to table after each course, while the women will remain seated. A three course meal which will include Appetizers, Dinner Salad, Chicken or Vegatarian Fajiatas and Dessert. Plus one complimentary drink ticket.

AFTER PARTY
After the dinner we are having an after party. We all head over to the El Torito across the street to continue the fun.

We are also getting singles from another Meetup group called Santa Monica Singles and with the Member Benefits Division of Westsiderentals.com
Recommended Age:
Men 30-49
Women 30-49

The Ocean Park Cafe
3117 Ocean Park Blvd, Santa Monica. CA. 90405
Santa Monica, CA 90405
310-995-7048

WHERE TO PARK:
The OP Cafe will be closed from the public, we will have balloons outside the cafe. Also there is very easy and free meter parking after 6pm along Ocean Park Blvd between 32nd and 34th on the northside of Ocean Park Boulevard. Plus residential parking also after 6 P.M. please allow time to park.

Any questions please just email mrsaintpatrick17@yahoo.com or call 310-450-2564
Take care,
Patrick

Inspirational True Story - She found love and a job!

2009-08-08T14:20:00.000-07:00

Despite the recession and her depression, dating leads to work plus a husband on eHarmony for this single woman. Hooray!

Visit msnbc.com for Breaking News, World News, and News about the Economy

Singles Fundraiser for Special Olympics: Friday, August 7th, 7PM

2009-08-05T09:50:00.000-07:00

Another event from Patrick at MixerParties:

A Fund Raiser with an Introduction Mixer/Party to benefit Special Olympics. Our guest of honor will be Special Olympian Peter Blumenthal, who is in the center of the photo on Mixerparties.com under the August 7th event. Pete is dressed in black sweats and wearing his medals.
Sign up online or pay at the door at www.Mixerparties.com. If you register online before August 7th, you will receive three tickets for the 9:00 Raffle.
The Mixer is based on singles socializing, the more you socialize, the more raffle tickets you receive. We will have an Introduction Mixer from 7:00-9:00 pm where you will get a chance to meet many new, fun people. We will provide you with a colored lei to reflect interest level: Yellow-Friendship, Red-Dating, Green-Networking, and Blue-Staff. See Mixerparties.com and click on the "Mixers" button to see how it works.
We will run a fun game, the more people you speak with, the more raffle tickets you receive. We will have a raffle at 9PM. So, get mixing, have fun and enjoy. Appetizers and Drink Specials will be offered during the Mixer.
PARKING
Valet parking is available for $6.00 or give yourself at least an extra 15-20 minutes to walk. I recommend East Rustic Road, Mesa Road, West Channel and Entrada. It is a beautiful area and is scenic. The Hideout is located about 100 yards away from the ocean.

The Hideout
112 West Channel
Santa Monica, 90402

Any questions please email mixerparties@yahoo.com

Green Speed Dating

2009-07-13T14:46:00.000-07:00

Are you an ecosexual? Then try Green Speed Dating, a way for environmentalists to find love in the smoggy haze of urban living.

JULY 19,2009 - CULVER CITY, CA
LOCATION: Culver Hotel located at 9400 Culver Blvd. Culver City, CA 90232
http://www.culverhotel.com
TIME: 6-8pm
COST: $25 per person
AGE RANGE: 20 - 40 years old
Pre-registration and pre-payment is required. We need to know who is coming in order to pre-make the dating forms. Please RSVP to greenspeeddating@gmail.com with your name, age, and gender. A confirmation email will be sent to you once you are signed up.

Perk: 50% Off SingleTees and SinglePup

2009-07-09T11:09:00.000-07:00

Want the t-shirt that Mariah Carey wore in her funny video, Touch My Body? Then check out this discount from SingleTease co-founder Kristin:

SingleTease loves our customers so much we wanted to spread the love. For all of July, we are offering the hottest discount ever: 50% off your order! Use Promo Code: HOT50

SingleTees® for Women
SinglePup® doggie tees

Have fun this summer and get those conversations started!

READING & SIGNING: 'TAO OF DATING FOR WOMEN'

2009-07-07T14:40:00.000-07:00

An invitation from Dr. Alex Benzer, our guest speaker last month:

WED 15 JULY 2009, 7PM @ BOOK SOUP, WEST HOLLYWOOD

Ladies --

I'm very pleased to announce my first public live
event since the release of 'The Tao of Dating: The
Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible.'

I'll be doing a reading at Book Soup, the world-
infamous independent LA bookstore right on the Sunset
Strip.

It's just an amazing bookstore, and it's an immense
privilege for me to read where I have come to see some
of my own literary heroes give readings.

And did I mention that there would be wine? Yes,
there will be wine, courtesy of yours truly.
Specifically, Italian sparkling wine (prosecco is
one of my favorite).

Here's the information:

'Tao of Dating for Women' Reading at Book Soup
Wed, 15 July 2009 at 7pm
8818 Sunset Blvd, West Hollywood CA 90069
Afterparty at a bar around the corner TBA

We'll start with the reading at around 7pm and
then do a Q&A for all your burning questions.

Afterwards, we'll mosey around the corner to a
bar and continue the festivities.

I would recommend that you show up EARLY if you
want a seat, because Book Soup ain't huge.

And if you're on my list, wear a flower somewhere
on your outfit and make sure you come say hi to
me so I can give you my extra-special attention :)

Hope you can make it!

The power is within you,
Dr Alex

PPS: I'm interested in your questions, comments and stories.
Keep them BRIEF please -- ten lines or less is ideal --
and zap 'em to me at dralex(at)thetaoofdating.com. I may
not be able to respond to all of them personally, but I do
read them all.

*********************************
Follow me on Twitter: @dralexbenzer
Join me on Facebook: www.facebook.com/DrAlexBenzer

Slow Dining - Dinner Parties by Kelly

2009-06-11T09:34:00.000-07:00

Kelly is hosting her dinner parties again this summer. Let her know if you're interested at kellystanphill@yahoo.com. She is an excellent cook!

Message from Kelly:

Happy Almost Summer!

So, I really want to get back into the party biz....but only for my single friends. And, since I love to cook............I've decided on a new format:

Sit down dinners in my backyard (in Santa Monica), for 24 people: 12 men, 12 women, 4 tables, 4 courses. (This requires a bit of math, not my strong suit!): 3 women at each table. Women stay put, men move to the other tables per course. Whew, took me a while to figure that one out!

Sort of like Speed Dating...but the opposite: Slow Dining.

I will need to charge $30 plus a bottle of wine to compliment the menu (which I will soon figure out). The $30 will cover the food, the furniture rentals, decor, cleaning, etc.

Since I have a tiny kitchen and I am one person, I will need two helpers (one guy, one girl) to: serve, plate the food, make sure the candles are lit, the tables are clean, etc. (Helpers are free of course.)

The first hour (or so).... will be spent having a signature cocktail, wine or beer, or other beverage, while I slave in the kitchen. :-) (But I love that so don't worry about me!)

Then you'll sit down for the four courses: appetizer, salad, entree and dessert.

Then another hour or two for post dinner cocktails, and fun.................

Before I go ahead and plan this I need to know if this is something that anyone would even be interested in? If so my first party will be Saturday, July 11.

Please let me know if this sounds like a good idea, a bad idea, or a super good idea and I'll end up on Oprah soon.

(Also, my LA Supper Club email list is hopelessly out of date so I am going to start with a fresh list, which will frankly, be the most time consuming part of this project. Please spread the word, help me build up my list again, let me know if you want off the list, or want to add someone to the list. (Age range: mid-30s-40s-early 50s). ISH. With this type of dinner party, I really want to have a good mix of people to make the dinner a success.)

Cheers,

Kelly

Lisa's Fantabulous Book Signing!

2009-06-10T09:28:00.000-07:00

Lisa Steadman, a former Sock Club guest speaker, is having a book signing tomorrow night. See her invite below and please note, there will be cookies!

Have you ever gone to a book signing for a friend, colleague, or acquaintance and been sorry you shlepped all the way there for nothing?

Well, when you come to my book signing at Borders Hollywood this Thursday, June 11 @ 7pm, you won't have come all that way for nothing. You'll enjoy the world's best chocolate chip cookies (seriously, I dare you to compare!), have the chance to win one of several groovy giveaways, and you'll get the pleasure of meeting and mingling with an AMAZING group of men and women who will also be in attendance.

PLUS, you'll hear a wee bit about my latest book It's a Breakup, Not a Breakdown Workbook: A 21-Day Action Plan to Plot Your Revenge, Spoil Yourself, and Find Out How Good Your Life Is Without Him (the signing will NOT be as long as the book title!), and get the inside scoop on how to manifest more than a healed heart by New Year's Eve. Hello!

And afterwards, let's migrate to a local Hollywood hot spot for cocktails and merriment. Woohoo!

Here are the deets:
Thursday, June 11 @ 7pm
Borders Hollywood
1501 Vine St.
Hollywood, CA 90028

Hope to see you there!

xoxo,

Lisa
(310) 339-1241
The Relationship JournalistTM | Success Coach
LisaSteadman.com

Mixer in Santa Monica this Saturday

2009-06-09T10:38:00.000-07:00

Aloha! Patrick invites you to wear a lei at his mixer at the Hideout.
Here's his invite:

A Fund Raiser With An Introduction Mixer/Party To benefit Mattel Children's Hospital. The 6:30 start is so that we can have the bar exclusively for the fundraiser. Mattel Children's Hospital mainly specializes in helping children stricken with cancer. My brother is on the fundraising board for the hospital. You can sign up online or pay at the door the cost is $15.00.

The Mixer is based on singles socializing, the more you socialize, the more raffle tickets you receive. We will have an Introduction Mixer from 6:30-8:00 pm where you will get a chance to meet many new, fun people. We will provide you with a colored lei to reflect interest level: Yellow-Friendship, Red-Dating, Green-Networking, and Blue-Staff. See Mixerparties.com and click on the "Mixers" button to see how it works.

We will run a fun game, the more people you speak with, the more raffle tickets you receive. We will have a raffle at 8PM. So, get mixing, have fun, and enjoy. Appetizers and Drink Specials will be offered during the Mixer.

Valet parking is available for $6.00 or else give yourself and extra 15-20 minutes to walk. It is a beautiful area and is scenic. I recommend looking on East Rustic Road, Mesa Road and Entrada. The Hideout is located about a 100 yards away from the ocean.

The event is Saturday June 13th 6:30 at the Hideout
112 West Channel
Santa Monica, 90402

All the main details are on www.Mixerparties.com

Any questions please call me anytime before 10 pm. or email mrsaintpatrick17@yahoo.com
Thanks, Patrick 310-450-2564

Do you shop for designer men or bargain dudes?

2009-05-27T14:53:00.000-07:00

How to Shop for a Husband author Janice Lieberman thinks dating for marriage is like shopping for a big purchase like a car or house. I agree since dating takes time, you must try relationships on, and you can do comparison dating online. Don't forget to clean out your romantic closet to make room for new love!

Visit msnbc.com for Breaking News, World News, and News about the Economy

If Moses had Dating Tips...

2009-05-19T15:01:00.001-07:00

I'm thinking they would be these: The Ten Commandments of Modern Dating by Dr. Alex Benzer, author of The Tao of Dating books.

My favorite "Thou Shalt" is the first one. What's yours?

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When dating, are you the "Bag Lady"?

2009-05-12T10:44:00.000-07:00

I watched this and thought, "She has fabulous hair AND great dating advice!" Dr. Michelle Callahan talks about "Ms. Typed", her book that helps women makeover their love life.

Visit msnbc.com for Breaking News, World News, and News about the Economy

Dare: Trade in Mr. Maybe for Mr. Yes

2009-05-06T11:10:00.000-07:00

I've had friends get engaged recently which proves that in Los Angeles in the year 2009 there are men not afraid of marriage or women over 40. I've also heard of others who are dating people who don't truly make them happy and I'm thinking why?

This article by Ian Kerner provides insight on why singles drift in a haze of partial happiness. I love that he refers to author Milan Kundera and autophobia which explains why some cannot leave mediocre relationships. Most importantly, there is a gentle reminder throughout that we are alive for a limited amount of time, so why squander it on Mr. Maybe when you could be with a Mr. Yes.

"Become Your Own Matchmaker" Booksigning This Saturday

2009-04-29T13:46:00.001-07:00

Ever wondered how a matchmaker works and if you should hire one or DIY? Then go to this: Fred Segal Fun Event This Saturday

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It's a good alternative for those who don't want or have the time to online date.

Singles Dinner in Santa Monica this Saturday

2009-04-20T16:30:00.000-07:00

Register at Mixerparties.com and get a $5.00 discount if you email mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention Sock Club.

Thanks for the discount Patrick!

Coco Seeks Dating Stories

2009-04-17T11:52:00.000-07:00

One of the Sock Club gals has started a blog about her love life and she's looking for dating tales. Please check out her blog if you want to share.

Who's Reading What: “Why He Didn’t Call You Back"

2009-04-16T13:56:00.000-07:00

Are you kind or bossy? Watch dating coach Rachel Greenwald give tips from her new book "Why He Didn’t Call You Back" on how to get that second date. I've always believed dating is like interviewing for a job. It's a skill that can be learned!

Visit msnbc.com for Breaking News, World News, and News about the Economy

Perk: Singles Dinner this Saturday

2009-03-25T20:12:00.000-07:00

Register at Mixerparties.com and get a $5.00 discount if you email mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention Sock Club.

Thanks for the discount Patrick!

Inspirational True Story: Persistence Pays Off

2009-03-06T15:40:00.000-08:00

This is a really fearless tale of going after love that I found on the New York Times website. Read this article and be inspired to go for who you want!

Rotation Dinner For Singles This Saturday, February 28

2009-02-25T11:32:00.000-08:00

A message from Patrick of The Santa Monica Singles Group:

A Rotational Dinner is where after each course the men will rotate to the next table. The cost is $25.00, which includes the food and one drink ticket. The cost is only $20.00 after the Sock Club discount. After they register at Mixerparties.com they will get $5.00 discount if they email mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention the Sock Club.

Any questions, please email mrsaintpatrick17@yahoo.com or call 310-995-7048

Thanks,
Patrick

Lisa Shield on Millionaire Matchmaker!

2009-02-11T10:03:00.000-08:00

I was pleasantly surprised to see the wonderful Lisa Shield on Millionaire Matchmaker last night. As some of you may know, she was a guest speaker at Sock Club.

She was coaching one of the single guys before his date and he listened to her sage advice, resulting in a second date.

If you're curious about the show, here's an interview with its star, the Ms. MM herself.

Visit msnbc.com for Breaking News, World News, and News about the Economy

Out and About: Special Olympics Fundraiser

2009-02-04T12:54:00.000-08:00

Another singles mixer from Patrick this Saturday, February 7:

See the "Mixers" button on the homepage of Mixerparties.com to see the questions and how it works.

A Fund Raiser With An Introduction Mixer/Party To Benefit Special Olympics. The 7:00 PM start is so that we can have the bar to ourselves for the fund raiser.

The Mixer is based on singles socializing, the more you socialize, the more raffle tickets you receive. We will have an Introduction Mixer from 7:00-8:30pm where you will get a chance to meet many new, fun people. We will provide you with a colored lei or you can wear several leis to reflect your interest level: Yellow-Friendship, Red-Dating, Green-Networking, and Blue-Staff.

We will run a fun game, the more people you speak with, the more raffle tickets you receive. We will have a raffle at 8:30. So get mixing, have fun and enjoy.

Register before February 7th and receive five raffle tickets. The cost is $15.00. The mixer will have Appetizers, Drink Specials and a chance to win some Raffle Prizes.

Any questions please call me anytime before 10pm or email mrsaintpatrick17@yahoo.com

Thanks,
Patrick
310-450-2564

Dare: “Love in 90 Days”

2009-02-02T14:25:00.000-08:00

I've always believed in a dating a pair and a spare. Comparision shopping in the search for true love seems to make more sense than jumping into a relationship.

Here's a book that promotes just that:

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Sock Club Perk: $5 off Singles Dinner

2009-01-12T18:19:00.000-08:00

Another dinner party from Patrick:

Rotational Dinner Party for Singles at the Ocean Park Cafe
7pm, January 17, 2009
Location: 3117 Ocean Park Blvd., Santa Monica, CA, 90405
The OP Cafe will be closed to the public.

After you register at Mixerparties.com, you will get a $5.00 discount when you email mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention Sock Club.

This is how a rotational dinner works:
The men will move from table to table for each course, while the women will remain seated. A three course meal plus dessert includes one complimentary drink ticket. All for twenty dollars! Pre-registration is required. The night of the event there will be balloons outside the cafe.

Please pre-register at mixerparties.com so we can have a balanced number of men and women and to guarantee your spot. Free parking after 6pm. Any questions please email: mixerparties@yahoo.com

Link: http://mixerparties.com/

She's back!

2009-01-08T09:24:00.000-08:00

Patti was a Sock Club guest speaker. See what she is up to in 2009!

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Out and About Dare: Go out with wingwomen!

2009-01-06T14:58:00.000-08:00

Everyone, men included, needs a good wingwoman.

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Who's Reading What: “The Soulmate Secret”

2009-01-06T14:33:00.000-08:00

Look beyond Kathie Lee's cougar fashion (and matching growling) for tips to how to find love in the new year. The 80something couple is the cutest!

Visit msnbc.com for Breaking News, World News, and News about the Economy

Out and About: March of Dimes Benefit

2008-12-04T09:31:00.000-08:00

My friend Julie is organizing this fun event to raise money for a good cause. Please check it out!

Dare: Wear red for the holidays

2008-11-19T14:38:00.000-08:00

Wondering what to wear to upcoming holiday parties? Choose the color of love and you may find yourself under the mistletoe with someone special! Read this article to find out more.

Dare: Find out what men want

2008-11-19T10:40:00.001-08:00

Men don't come with instructions so here are a few hints to help you understand the one you love. Enjoy!

Sock Club Perk: $5 off Singles Dinner

2008-11-12T14:25:00.000-08:00

Another dinner party from Patrick:

Rotational Dinner Party for Singles at the Ocean Park Cafe
November 22, 2008
Location: 3117 Ocean Park Blvd., Santa Monica, CA, 90405
The OP Cafe will be closed to the public.

After you register at Mixerparties.com, you will get a $5.00 discount when you email mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention Sock Club.

This is how a rotational dinner works:
The men will move from table to table for each course, while the women will remain seated. A three course meal will include salad, beef, chicken, or vegetarian fajitas plus dessert. Includes one complimentary drink ticket. All for twenty dollars! Pre-registration is required. The night of the event there will be balloons outside the cafe.

Please pre-register at mixerparties.com so we can have a balanced number of men and women and to guarantee your spot. Free parking after 6pm. Any questions please email: mixerparties@yahoo.com

Dare: More on the Super Bowl Single Gal

2008-10-27T13:10:00.000-07:00

She's back! I think it's nice she's donating it all to charity if she doesn't meet her goal.

Dare: Place a Super Bowl Singles Ad

2008-10-20T14:17:00.000-07:00

It'll only cost you $3 million!

Who's Reading What: The Science of Dating Revealed

2008-10-14T16:34:00.000-07:00

I'm planning on reading this book by Jena Pincott: Do Gentlemen Really Prefer Blondes?: Bodies, Behavior, and Brains--The Science Behind Sex, Love, and Attraction

If you check it out, let me know what you think.

Who's Reading What: Snag a Man with a Warm Plate of Cookies

2008-09-18T17:15:00.000-07:00

I watched this video online about three gal pals who asked a bunch of guys what they wanted in a woman and kept hearing them say "Can she cook?" So they decided to write a book to help ladies bake their way to victory in the competitive sport of dating. Here's an excerpt from the cookbook, “The Get ’Em Girls’ Guide to the Power of Cuisine.”

Of course it helps to cook what he likes to eat so do your research!

Out and About: Singles Mixer in Encino - Free wine!

2008-09-17T12:20:00.000-07:00

Message from Edwin: I have a big mixer in Encino this Saturday. If you know of anyone that likes wine tasting with good people, please tell them about my mixer! The first glass of wine is on OneKeyAway.com

Sign up on his website and, as always, happy dating!

Who's Reading What: Hotlanta wins!

2008-09-12T13:52:00.000-07:00

Do you know where the best place to be single and looking is? Forbes has the answer in its annual Best Cities for Singles article. Read it and learn.

I LEK it!

2008-08-20T15:40:00.000-07:00

I read about The LEK on Online Personals Watch and it looks promising as a new dating website that matches singles based on where they like to eat and hang out. That is so commonsensical in a "why didn't I think of that" way. Plus they have lots of popular restaurants on board, including ugo in Culver City whose owner Ugo is very gregarious indeed. There is a LEK event there tonight so I say U go!

Out and About: Fundraiser To Benefit Special Olympics

2008-08-19T12:28:00.000-07:00

Another singles event from Patrick...

When: Saturday, August 23, at 6:30p
Where:
The Hideout
112 West Channel
Santa Monica, CA, 90402

In attendance will be Special Olympian Peter Blumenthal!

The Mixer is based on singles socializing, the more you socialize, the more raffle tickets you receive. For each online signup Mixerparties.com and Westsiderentals.com each will donate $10 to Special Olympics. Drink Specials, Raffle Prizes and Appetizers will be offered during the Mixer. Valet parking available for $6.00.

See Mixerparties.com for all the details. Any questions please call me anytime before 10 pm. or email mixerparties@yahoo.com.

Thanks,
Patrick
310-450-2564

Dare: Crazy. Blind. Date.

2008-08-07T11:06:00.000-07:00

Many thanks to gal pal Teresa for letting me know about a free dating website called Crazy Blind Date that is perfect for the last minute, adrenaline junkie single who doesn't mind leaving their love life in the hands of complete and utter randomness.

I read through the FAQs and the double blind date is an intriguing concept for those who like to bring along their trusty wingwoman.

As always, happy crazy blind dating!

Dare: Let Someone Else Pick Your Husband

2008-08-07T10:54:00.000-07:00

Yet another reality show about dating except it skips all that and goes right to the altar.

If you've ever contemplated an arranged marriage, here's your chance to explore the option that other cultures have embraced.

Arranged Marriage is casting now and will air on Lifetime. Here's the website

Good luck!

Who's Reading What: Dating Articles on Oprah's website

2008-07-24T14:18:00.000-07:00

OMG. I love it! Check it out: http://www.oprah.com/subtopic/relationships/dating

Who's Reading What: Kiyomi's Summer Reading

2008-07-23T16:36:00.000-07:00

My gal pal Kiyomi has recommended a great collection of dating and relationship books for you to savor while lounging poolside with a icy drink. I have read Emotional Intelligence and Social Intelligence and I think they're really good, especially for understanding human behavior.

Here are Kiyomi's picks:
52 Fights: A Newlywed's Confession - Real Story of A First Year of Marriage
The Divorce Lawyers' Guide to Staying Married

Social Intelligence: The New Science of Human Relationships
Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

Kiyomi says, "I'll add three books, but they aren't so much for "learning" as for realizing that there are worse dating stories out there than yours so KEEP THINKING POSITIVE and enjoy your dating journey."
The Year of Yes
Kick Me: Adventures in Adolescence
Superstud: Or How I Became a 24-Year-Old Virgin

And for those of you who prefer internet reading, she also likes eHarmony Advice.

Thanks, Kiyomi, and happy reading everyone!

Out and About: Free Potluck Mixer

2008-07-21T13:44:00.000-07:00

You're invited to another MixerParties.com event Saturday, July 26th, at 1pm.

Venue: Rustic Canyon Park, 601 Latimer Road, Santa Monica
Please Bring: A-H=Appetizers, I-L=Dessert, M-Q=Drinks, R-Z=Main Dish
Food Should Be For 5 People And No Alcohol. Look For The Balloons.
Email Mixerparties@yahoo.com to RSVP.

Sock Club Perk: $5 off Singles Dinner

2008-07-07T16:56:00.000-07:00

Rotational Dinner Party
Ocean Park Cafe, 3117 Ocean Park Blvd., Santa Monica, CA 90405
Saturday, July 12, 2008
7 PM
$5 off for Sock Club members!
Recommended Age: 25-45
Men will move from table to table for each course, while women will remain seated.

Sign up on mixerparties.com. You will get $5.00 discount if you email mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention Sock Club.

Enjoy dining and dating!

Out and About: Fundraiser for The Guttenhouse

2008-06-16T20:44:00.000-07:00

Another MixerParties.com event for a good cause takes place this Saturday night, June 21, at The Hideout in Santa Monica. Here's a note from the organizer, Patrick:

Steve Guttenberg is best known for starring in the movie Police Academy plus their sequels and most recently Dancing with the Stars. Steve has been a family friend for several years. He is very caring and kind which he has demonstrated by his involvement in various non-profit charities.

Steve is currently involved with a program aimed at improving opportunities for young disadvantaged people. Steve is the founder of the Guttenhouse, an apartment complex for young people after their graduation from foster child status to adult status. Guttenhouse is staffed with an on-site social worker to assist the residents gain adult developmental skills.

For each person you speak with, you will receive one raffle ticket. At the end of the Mixer there will be a raffle and you could win some fun prizes. The Mixer will have people wearing different color Hawaiian leis to reflect their interest level Yellow=Friendship, Red=Dating, Green=Networking, White=Spoken For, and Blue=Staff. You can wear several leis at a time, around your neck, wrist, whatever you are comfortable with.

There also be appetizers and drink specials. I want people to meet, have fun and raise money for a good cause.

Out and About: The Luxe Life

2008-06-02T15:57:00.000-07:00

Get ready for dating this summer with style consultations, cocktails, and discounted designer shopping this Thursday in West Los Angeles.

Organized by Sock Club member Julie, the event includes free beauty treatments, a great deal for $15 pre-purchase and for $25 you get a swag bag too. If I'm able to escape work that day, I will get my eyebrows done by benefit, indulge in a mini-massage, and enjoy a Millionaire Mojito.

Join me!

Sex and The City the movie is finally here!

2008-05-30T18:12:00.000-07:00

I toast the gals of Sex and The City with a cosmo and this fact from the following video: 66% of women ages 25 to 44 are single in Manhattan! According to this short "Dating to Win" sent to me from Kai of Current TV, one way to find love is to hire a dating coach such as Nancy Slotnick in New York City. She'll help you "turn your cablight on" through advice on how to create a man-friendly living space and more.

Inspirational True Story - She's engaged!

2008-05-13T16:26:00.000-07:00

Here an Inspirational True Story from a Sock Club member. I'm using her first initial to keep it anonymous. Enjoy!

I met my fiance (he's Chinese-American Christian) online on ChristianCafe.com. Actually, it's really funny--you know G works for e-Harmony and during Labor Day weekend 2007 they had a free matches weekend on e-Harmony. She told me to do that--so I did--but I GOT NOTHING!! You think with 17 million members, I could at least have 1 match? Well, anyways, so I wasn't getting any matches that weekend from e-Harmony so I went to ChristianCafe.com to try it out. They were having a free 7-day trial promotion to counter-act e-Harmony's free communication weekend. Since finding an Asian-American Christian guy was important to me, I said "What the heck"...I filled out ChristianCafe's profile (which only took me half an hour to do) and once I had a profile, I could do a search.

I found some "matches" that met my criteria, but his profile stood out since
1. He was a Christian, and Chinese-American (which are my must-haves)
2. He likes to help the homeless! (Which is a ministry that is dear to my heart).
3. He loves to cook (which is very near and dear to my heart!)

So, I "winked" and sent him an e-mail saying that I enjoyed his profile. He e-mailed me a few days later and that's how it all got started. We started talking on the phone about 10 days after exchanging e-mails and he came to LA for 1 week end of October and that's when we knew we were "it" for one another!

Seriously Pearl, I've told a lot of my friends that maybe some of the girls may need to go with some "marginalized" guys (meaning they are bad dressers, kinda socially awkward, etc)...you never know what you can find if you dust off and smooth some of the edges. I mean, he was a horrible dresser (I've helped to changed that), looked older than he is (since he has grey hair, but I've made him professionally dye his hair) and somewhat overweight (we're both eating healthier). That is just the outside which we can change/improve....but what drew me was his character and his love and consideration for me. So, please tell the girls to not overlook the "marginalized" guys--if they're willing to roll their sleeves and do some work, they can find a diamond in the rough!!!

Keep encouraging the girls and thanks so much for organizing a group like this---us single gals need support in order to find our mates!

Love,
C

Sock Club Perk: $5 off Singles Dinner

2008-05-13T10:14:00.000-07:00

Rotational Dinner Party
Ocean Park Cafe, 3117 Ocean Park Blvd., Santa Monica, CA 90405
Saturday, May 17, 2008
7 PM
$5 off for Sock Club members!
Recommended Age: 25-45
Men will move from table to table for each course, while women will remain seated. The dinner includes penne pasta with marinara or meat sauce, dinner salad, and dessert.

Sign up on mixerparties.com You will get $5.00 discount if you email mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention Sock Club.

Bon appetit!

Sock Club Dare: Are you a Cougar?

2008-04-29T11:12:00.000-07:00

Thanks to Liz for forwarding this to me. It looks like they are defining cougar as single and over 35 so I guess that makes me one. Growl! I dare you to check it out, especially those of you who have businesses to promote. It could be a great opportunity for free publicity. Here's the invite:

There is a popular dating class currently in Los Angeles called Cougar Class. It's a 2-hour program that instructs women how to be more confident and secure in the dating scene. It has been featured on KTLA and is highlighted in this month's issue of Los Angeles Magazine.

We are now in the process of selecting featured students for our reality show that will be in production starting this summer. So if you can share interesting stories or entertaining tips about being an older woman within the singles scene, we want you to attend our next class and dazzle us with your energy, charisma, and honesty.

Our next Cougar Class is:
Thursday, May 1, 8:00PM
Sheraton Pasadena Hotel, 303 East Cordova Street, Pasadena, CA 91101

Please RSVP and tell us any relevant information that might describe you better to info@cougarclass.com

Out and About: Singles at the X-Bar on May 3

2008-04-28T12:15:00.001-07:00

Kristine wanted to invite you all to a singles event organized by the Six Degrees Group:

If you have received this email it means that you are one of the "Chosen People" and your presence is requested to hang out for the night of Saturday, May 3 at the X-Bar. We're looking to gather a group of cool thirty and forty something professionals who are stable and sane (to be determined)...and still single. We thought we'd start a new trend in meeting people for those of us who need a break from the internet and blind dating. If 6 degrees of separation facilitates a love connection, we'll take all the credit.

If you're interested and interesting, come join us at the X-Bar in Century City at the Hyatt Regency Century Plaza Hotel, 2025 Avenue of the Stars. $10 cover after 8:30pm. There's valet parking in the front.

Please forward this email to your most eligible single male and female friends, who are worthy.

Hope to see you there after 8:30pm.

Sock Club Perk: Stuck in your home office?

2008-04-23T16:01:00.000-07:00

Feel like you're working alone all the time and not meeting new people, especially single men?

My architect pal Jerome has started a new venture, BLANKSPACES, for those seeking an alternative to working at home in Los Angeles.

Mention to him that I referred you and you get a special deal: 40 free hours at the Work Bar and 1/2 off memberships. Plus there's free parking and it's decorated with work from a local art gallery. You can also hold meetings in the multimedia conference room.

Jerome is a friendly fellow and many thanks to Dean for offering the discount. Check it out!

Out and About: Fundraiser for Children's Hospital

2008-04-22T15:32:00.001-07:00

Here's another mixer for a good cause from the fellows who do the singles dinners at Ocean Park Cafe. It's going to be a warm weekend so check it out!

Saturday, April 26, 2008
6:30pm
The Hideout, 112 West Channel, Santa Monica, CA 90402

A mixer with appetizers and raffle prizes. Proceeds go to Mattel Children's Hospital at UCLA. Register before April 26th and you will receive five raffle tickets.

Price: $ 10.00
Valet Parking: $5.00

Register on the website and happy mixing!

Sock Club Perk: 40% off The Date Agent

2008-03-28T16:29:00.000-07:00

April guest speaker The Date Agent aka Cory Honickman is offering 40% off her services to Sock Club members. Here's her website.

May she book you the date of your dreams!

Who's Reading What: "Marry Him"

2008-03-13T12:53:00.000-07:00

Ever wondered if you should just ditch dating and have a kid on your own?

Here's the story of one woman who did at 38 and how she believes that she should have settled instead of holding out for perfection. Or as my grandmother once advised me, "Marry with one eye closed!"

Lori Gottlieb, 40 and a single mother by sperm donor, writes the compelling article, aptly titled "Marry Him", for The Atlantic and there is also an interview with her.

The Today Show interviewed single women about her article as well.

I hope Lori meets someone "good enough" to marry soon!

Sock Club Perk: $5 off Singles Dinner

2008-03-13T10:20:00.000-07:00

Thanks Patrick for offering this discount to Sock Club!

Rotational Dinner Party: Ocean Park Cafe, 3117 Ocean Park Blvd., Santa Monica
Saturday, March 29, 2008, 7 PM
$5 off for Sock Club members! Recommended Age: 25-45
Men move from table to table for each course, while women will remain seated. The three-course meal includes salad, Mexican food, and dessert. One complimentary ticket for wine or soda. Street parking.

Sign up on mixerparties.com
You will get a $5.00 discount if you e-mail mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention Sock Club.

Sock Club Perk: $5 off Singles Dinner

2008-02-19T12:12:00.000-08:00

Thanks Patrick for offering this discount to Sock Club!

Rotational Dinner Party: Ocean Park Cafe, 3117 Ocean Park Blvd., Santa Monica
Saturday, February 23, 2008, 7 PM
$5 off for Sock Club members! Recommended Age: 25-45
Men move from table to table for each course, while women will remain seated. The three-course meal includes salad, Mexican food, and dessert. One complimentary ticket for wine or soda. Street parking.

Sign up on mixerparties.com You will get a $5.00 discount if you e-mail mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention Sock Club.

Out and About: Thirsty Thursdays

2008-02-12T13:54:00.000-08:00

If you're looking for weekly fun and yet another opportunity to meet new people of all ages, my gal pal Jessica organizes Thursday night gatherings around town. This week they will be at the Bodega Wine Bar in Santa Monica for Valentine's Day. If you want to go, I can forward you the invite. All (singles and couples) are welcome.

Just be thirsty!

Chick TV: "Millionaire Matchmaker" on Bravo

2008-02-10T11:01:00.000-08:00

The dating season continues as Bravo introduces a new series about a matchmaker Patti Stanger who works in Los Angeles with wealthy men. Aptly titled Millionaire Matchmaker, the show looks like it'd be a good example of how a matchmaker can help you if you feel you need to hire someone to find love. Hopefully Patti has some dating advice that anyone can use.

T-shirts for Single Women!

2008-02-05T17:09:00.000-08:00

Through another Sock Club member, I found out about entrepreneur Kristin who has a cute new way to hook in a guy. She says, I am an owner of a company for singles called SingleTease. We design and sell products that break the ice between singles. Our first product is a line of great fitting t-shirts with clever messages which let a guy know a woman is available and approachable. Messages include "Just Ask Me (out)" and "Boyscouting (are you prepared?)" Simple. And it works! It’s the hottest new approach to meeting men. Sold online at www.singletease.com

Meet Kristin in person and get her flirty shirt-tease at:
Valentines Trunk Show - Fabulous jewelry, shoes and tees! Wine and cheese!
Friday, February 8, 2008, 7:30pm
11815 Laurelwood Drive, Unit 5, Studio City, CA 91604
RSVP by 2/7 to kristin@singletease.com

Sock Club Perk: $5 off Singles Dinner

2008-01-14T11:30:00.000-08:00

Thanks Patrick for offering this discount to Sock Club!

Rotational Dinner Party
Ocean Park Cafe, 3117 Ocean Park Blvd., Santa Monica
Saturday, January 19, 2008
6:30 PM
$5 off for Sock Club members!
Recommended Age: 25-45
Men will move from table to table for each course, while women will remain seated. The dinner includes penne pasta with marinara or meat sauce, dinner salad, and dessert.

People can sign up on mixerparties.com They will get $5.00 discount if they email mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention Sock Club.

Bon appetit!

Chick TV: "Matched in Manhattan" on Lifetime

2008-01-09T15:05:00.000-08:00

Welcome to hunting-for-love season!

To kick off the dating rush during January, there's a new show on Lifetime about dating in the big city, specifically New York. After catching a glimpse last Friday night, I watched the first episode online today. I think it's entertaining enough to watch again to see how singles trip themselves up and then change to win in the dating game.

Matched in Manhattan reveals the etiquette of dating through the work of a newlywed dating coach and matchmaker, Matt Titus, who helps singles remodel their looks and homes to attract love.

May they all find someone soon!

Who's Reading What: America's Most Lustful Cities

2008-01-09T14:06:00.000-08:00

Here's a lusty article in Forbes from Sock Club member Anne. I guess the "home page of the world's business leaders" isn't afraid to tackle the more intimate parts of capitalism.

I checked out this provocative piece of statistically-based journalism and found out that Denver is the most safe-loving city in the USA which gives an alternative meaning to the Mile High Club.

Congratulations to Denver, also known as Menver for its abundance of single guys!

Who's Reading What: Celebrate Love for the Holidays

2007-11-26T15:27:00.000-08:00

Sock Club guest speaker Karinna Kittles-Karsten has a new book, Intimate Wisdom, The Sacred Art of Love, coming out on Tuesday, November 27, just in time for the holiday season.

She says, "This has been a five year effort and this wonderful day has finally come. This book reveals a unique, ancient Eastern and contemporary Western approach for finding, creating, and keeping a great intimate relationship."

Dr. Christiane Northrup, author of Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom and PBS expert, writes, "Intimate Wisdom is uplifting, sensual and inspiring."

Please click here to find out more about her book and to receive the many incredible, valuable gifts and bonuses in a Celebration of Love for the Holidays.

Thanks to Karinna for sharing her knowledge with us and many thanks also to her book editor, my friend Melissa Pilgrim, who continues to inspire with her good work as Your Writing Muse. Check out her website for more information.

Out and About: Holiday Boutique

2007-11-13T15:05:00.000-08:00

Need the perfect date necklace?

Sock Club member Sharon Wong invites you to attend an open house Holiday Boutique where she will be selling her handmade jewelry and watches. There will also be children's clothing, intimate apparel, and toys.

2242 Westridge Road, Los Angeles, CA 90049
Saturday, November 17, 12:00PM to 5:00PM
Please rsvp on the Evite.

Refreshments will be served. See you there!

Sock Club Perk: $5 off Singles Dinner

2007-11-13T14:29:00.000-08:00

Thanks Patrick for offering this discount those who read the Sock Club blog:

Rotational Dinner at Ocean Park Cafe, 3117 Ocean Park Blvd., Santa Monica
Saturday, November 17, 2007
7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Only $15 for Sock Club members!
Recommended Age: Men 25-39 Women 25-39
Men will move from table to table for each course, while women will remain seated. The dinner includes penne pasta with two different sauces marinara or meat, dinner salad, and dessert.

People can sign up on mixerparties.com They will get $5.00 discount if they email mixerparties@yahoo.com and mention Sock Club.

Bon appetit!

Out and About: Singles at Whole Foods in Pasadena next Thursday

2007-11-09T17:02:00.000-08:00

Thanks to the Eating L.A. blog I found out about this singles event in Pasadena at the new Whole Foods.

Thursday, November 15th
Single & Mingle
6:00–8:00 p.m.
Where do Pasadena’s singles meet and greet? At the new Whole Foods Market at Arroyo Parkway, naturally! Join us for great food, fun and new friends.

Whole Foods Market
465 South Arroyo Parkway(South Arroyo Parkway and Bellevue Drive)
Pasadena, CA 91105
626.204.2266

Hooray to Whole Foods for helping out its single shoppers!

Mixer Parties: Scary Singles at The Hideout

2007-10-23T10:44:00.000-07:00

Sock Club member Cary recommends this event so check it out if you feel brave enough. Happy Halloween!

Saturday, October 27th, 2007
Mixer Parties Appetizers, Raffle Prizes, and Drink Specials. Costume Contest
Mixer 7 PM - 8:30 PM Costume Party Follows. Costume required!
COVER: $5.00
The Hideout 112 W. Channel Rd., Santa Monica, CA 90402 (310) 454-6024 Valet and street parking. Sign up online, bring a copy of your receipt, Photo I.D. and valet ticket by 8pm, and your valet parking will be complimentary.

Sock Club Perk: Tickets to Wine Tasting

2007-10-09T10:16:00.000-07:00

Here's a Sock Club Perk to kick off the weekend, thanks to my friend John at Social Domain:

10 FREE tickets (RSVP required) to The Sumptuous Flavors of Argentina organized by WineSocials this Monday night, October 15, from 6 to 9pm at the Omni Hotel in downtown LA.

Here's the description: Come discover the sensuous secrets of the wines of Argentina, one sip at a time. Think of Argentina and where do your thoughts take you? Perhaps soaring to the tips of the snow-capped Andes or to the vast beauty of the Patagonian outback, discovered and named by Magellan himself. In the spirit of that sense of discovery, we present you with a delicious experience that explores the rich and robust wines of Argentina. We have selected fascinating wines from the country's vast and varied growing regions, including Salta, La Rioja, Patagonia, San Juan, and Mendoza - the geographic heart and spiritual soul of Argentinean wine making. A variety of mouth watering Specialty Argentine appetizers will accompany the wines.

Please RSVP to me by Saturday with your name and how many guests. I Sock Club dare you to invite someone you're interested in. You never know what will happen!

Cheers, and, as always, happy dating!

Free Dating Seminar & Singles Mixer

2007-10-04T13:49:00.000-07:00

An invitation from our November guest speaker Keri:

CHECK THIS OUT!!

Tonight at J Lounge, 1119 South Olive Street, Downtown L.A.

Ladies – learn how to magnetize a man to you with the best flirting technique!
Men – learn the confidence and tools to approach the women you want to meet!

Then join the mixer afterwards! If you mention “Can’t Date Without It” – get all this for FREE!!! (reg. $25.00)

Seminars begin at 6:00 PM, mixer begins at 7:00 PM

Forward this to any singles you know!! It’s going to be a great time!

Keri Newell
(310) 880-0323
www.CantDateWithoutIt.com

Free Calling in "The One" Teleclass Tomorrow!

2007-10-01T17:45:00.000-07:00

This teleclass will be facilitated live by Calling In "The One" author, Katherine Woodward Thomas and Rosewood Center Co-Director, newlywed Claire Andrea Zammit. Claire spoke to Sock Club earlier this year. The picture is of Katherine (left) with Claire on her wedding day in last June.

Here are the notes from that meeting:

The April meeting was hosted by guest speaker Claire Andrea Zammit at the Rosewood Center. Claire spoke to Sock Club about "Calling in The One", a book by her writing partner Katherine Woodward Thomas. Katherine transformed herself from dating unavailable men and being depressed to being married with a child at 41. She and Katherine strive in their work to make this transformation easy and fun. They also teach a course about feminine energy. They believe that women can be ambivalent about their feminine energy which is about being as opposed to masculine energy which is about doing. This reminds me of my friend who says that she knows she must act like a man at work, but when she gets home, she drops the act and is a woman around her boyfriend. Claire shared her personal story of calling in The One. In 2005, she was in a relationship which felt average, like a 7. After 3 years, she felt deep anxiety and sought a way out. She shifted her beliefs through powerful statements that re-anchored her identity. She moved from false identities such as feeling rejected by men to true ones. By shifting her beliefs, she shifted her relationship and left the man she was living with. Then through friends she met Craig whom she will be married to this month. Miraculously even before she met him, she read an article that he'd written and felt that he was The One. Plus she states he's off the scale, an 11 of out 10!

While dating, Claire made room for two in her life by renting a bigger apartment. Though she was a single woman, she behaved as though she was in a relationship. It's like preparing a nursery for a baby on the way! To learn more from Katherine herself, please listen to the inspirational radio interviews on her website.

To join the teleclass, please call Tuesday, October 2, at 5pm PDT: 712-432-8900 Access Code: 85527.

Considering a Dating Coach?

2007-09-27T14:36:00.000-07:00

I read this N.Y. Times article about dating coaches and here is my analysis of its advice.

On devoting 15 hours a week to dating as suggested by coach Nancy Slotnick, I say that's not the correct commitment to make. You need to be in dating mode constantly or you will miss that cute guy who's reading The Onion at Starbucks on his lunch break. Thinking about it in terms hours to slot into your calendar is not the way I go about it when I am actively dating. The reason why is that when you are in a relationship, you will be in girlfriend mode constantly. Never look at your love life as putting in time. It's just wrong and a romance killer for sure.

I noticed that none of the singles and their coaches mentioned their dating goals. Setting goals is really important so you don't date aimlessly for months. I would advise anyone who hires a coach to insert an incentive into the payment structure that matches your timeline. Want a committed relationship within a year? Find a coach who agrees to a bonus for meeting that goal. Be sure to monitor your progress as you don't want to be spending money on someone who lets you coast along.

The most common piece of advice is to stay positive. With that in mind, I wish you all happy dating!

Green Socks Only - Free Speed Dating this Sunday, September 23

2007-09-20T15:35:00.001-07:00

This free speed dating event is organized by LA-FUN and is at the Hideout in Santa Monica this Sunday at 6pm. The recommended dress code is biodegradable and already 30 Sierra Club singles have signed up.

Don't forget to carpool and bring along a former boyfriend for recycling.

Free HurryDate Spots This Week

2007-09-17T15:41:00.000-07:00

This message is from gal pal Tracey of HurryDate:

Ok, I have a few events this week that have uneven numbers so I have some freebies JUST IN CASE someone you know (or you) would like to go on a bunch of HurryDates (speeddates) Tuesday or Wednesday night, I have a few FREE SPOTS (normally $37!) Please pass this on to anyone who might be interested.

Check-in starts at 7:30pm and the HurryDating begins at 8pm.

Tuesday night is at: Clear Lounge in Studio City (11916 Ventura Blvd just east of Laurel Canyon)I have comps for both MEN and WOMEN Suggested Ages are:Women 30-40, Men 35-45 (a little older or younger is FINE)

I have FOUR comps for MEN on Wednesday night!@ Busby's East (The ballroom) in LA (5364 Wilshire Blvd just eat of La Brea) Men & Women 25-35 (a little older or younger is FINE)

Email me asap to rsvp or for more info. As you probably know I host all kinds of events, but I only email you guys when I have a freebie or something- let me know if you or friends wanna know about everything or go to some other HurryDate and you can always get my discount of course if you want

Hugs,
Trace

Tracey Rooney 213.840.3483 roonster@pacbell.net

Vote for Best Los Angeles Singles Scene!

2007-09-13T18:31:00.000-07:00

Tasty LA was nominated by CitySearch for their Top 10 list so congratulations to Lynn and please vote for what you think is the best place to meet singles in Los Angeles.

I must say though I am mystified that closed places are nominated. What's the point of that?

May the best L.A.S.S. win!

The Four Man Plan in Four Cities!

2007-09-12T15:33:00.000-07:00

Congratulations to former Sock Club guest speaker Cindy Lu for the nationwide release of her book The Four Man Plan with more new pages plus a success story from a Sock Club member who got engaged earlier this year. In the book, she is "Georgia" and she was inspired to do the plan when a group of us went to see Cindy's one-woman show by the same name. Here's an excerpt:

Cindy is currently on her book tour so check out her website to see if she'll be in a city near you.